Saturday, 21 February 2015

Semantics or Religious Apartheid?

Is it just me, or does anyone else have a problem with this? Am I missing something here?

Man Church? Who comes up with these antics and sales gimmicks?

Maybe it sounds a little extreme, but the very first thing I thought of when I saw this was, I wonder what would happen if a sister were to walk into their gathering on Wednesday at 7pm? Would she be welcome? Or would she perhaps be shown the door? And if she were shown the door, what if she made a stink about it, perhaps even filing legal action for discrimination? Would she win? Now there's a show that I'd be curious to see play itself out.

No, I'm not a fan of lawsuits at every slightest whim when someone feels that their rights were somehow trampled upon and violated, especially among people who count themselves as believers. What ever happened to turning the other cheek and going the extra mile (Matthew 5:38-42)? Paul said that "The very fact that you have lawsuits among you means that you have been completely defeated already. Why rather be wronged? Why not rather be cheated? Instead you yourselves cheat and do wrong, and you do this to your brothers" (1 Corinthians 6:7-8). But I have digressed.

It's really quite sad how often we use buffoonery in the name of Christ's church!

Again, am I missing something here? In his song "Dirty Water," Lecrae says that "the most segregated time of day is Sunday service," (or maybe in this case, Wednesday evening), and I'm beginning to think that he may be on to something. The word "segregation" makes me think of another word: "apartheid," and the thought of apartheid only leaves a bad taste in my mouth. Clearly it does not belong in the church. Is that what we're talking about here; a form of religious apartheid? Ouch!

Now I'm not opposed to men fellowshipping together any more than women doing likewise. In the same way, there is nothing wrong with children's or young adult groups that cater to their specific interests. There's a host of words we could use to describe gender or age specific subsections of the church. Maybe I'm just fiddling with semantics, but whenever I hear or use the word "church," I cannot help think of it as encompassing the whole body of Christ and not just a small subsection of it. As such, if this "Man Church" were really a true "church," it would have to include everyone from cradle to grave, regardless of gender. In other words, "church" is about family, and every member in it. In my way of thinking, anything less might be better off not called a "church," however if it is, it's probably more accurately described with the word "pseudo" hyphenated in front of it.

That's the way I see it anyways. Peace.

"Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them,
for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these"
(Jesus; Mt.19:14).

Photo source: Unknown; via Facebook

Sunday, 15 February 2015

The Science of God

"Science disproves the existence of God."

Who hasn't heard a plethora of people espouse that belief? But does it really? What if the reverse was actually more likely the truth? What if, contrary to many atheistic dogmas, science actually proved the existence of God? Could it be that what science is really saying is what the church has been saying all along, namely that "God's not dead, He's surely alive" (to borrow a line from the Newsboys)? I like to think so. 

I would like to dedicate this post to all my many friends who would call themselves either 'atheists' or 'agnostics,' and I do so with all due respect. Just as this blog is called Rethinking Faith and Church, largely because of a lot of "rethinking" I myself have done on spiritual matters since leaving the institutional church, I would challenge you, my friends, to also do a little "rethinking" as you watch the following video from Prager University, and that you do so with an open mind.

Maybe, just maybe, you'll begin to see that God is very much alive, and if that is true, then maybe it's not such a far stretch from there to see that such a God really does LOVE you too. That is my prayer.




"In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth." (Genesis 1:1)

Photo Credit: Fred Locklear; Flickr Creative Commons

Friday, 13 February 2015

Are You Feeling the Love?

My brother shared this image with me the other day as well as the following thoughts:

"I must admit, I really did LOL at this one ... but then when I got to the underlined comment, I felt a bit ashamed. It's sad how quickly we jump all over a little mistake made by a 'friend.' I sure hope the Mark in this post has a thick enough skin to take the teasing. Not everyone has." (Shared here with his permission)

The last commenter is right, of course: "There you go, Mark!!!! One little slip of the finger and all of your friends mock you. Are you feeling the love?"

I couldn't help but wonder how much love others feel in the things I say or share online. Being somewhat of a humorist myself, I too see the funny side of this post, and from time to time, I too have been known to make fun of a simple typo or grammatical error of another without giving too much thought to their feelings. It is easy to say that they need to "toughen up," and not take everything so serious, but the fact is, we are not all the same; some of us are much more sensitive than others, and it is my humble opinion that we would do well to also be a little more sensitive to people like that.

Now, maybe Mark is OK with the teasing and, as my brother commented, "has a thick enough skin" to deal with it. But what about the next person? Especially as Christians, how would Christ have us to respond? Maybe the bacon jokes, if they simply must be, are best kept as a private one-on-one message and out of the humiliation of the public eye.

"It [love] is not rude ... it keeps no record of wrongs" (1 Corinthians 13:5), but social media apparently does.

Saturday, 31 January 2015

of Creation, Semantics, and Language Gone Awry

"The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of His hands" (Psalm 19:1; NIV).

"I hate winter," said my wife as she helped me finish shovelling out the driveway from last night's snowfall. "Me too," I said. "Me too!"

And while I suspect that there are probably more of us who by mid-winter would echo those words than those who wouldn't, and more of us who would prefer the +25 degree (77 F) to the -25 degree (-13 F), I suddenly also started to see something else between the lines. God created seasons, and I'm pretty sure that He didn't create certain ones in order to make life miserable for us. He didn't create winter's snow just to get me grumbling as I climb off the couch, bundle myself up, and go outside to shovel the driveway. (Although when I look at my girth, maybe He did; Lord knows I could use the exercise).

However as I thought further about the creation account, I began to think a little differently about this morning's snow shovelling adventure. Perhaps my winter attitude needs a little adjustment. I wondered if perhaps I might be looking at this season all wrong.
"In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. ... And God said, 'Let there be lights in the expanse of the sky to separate the day from the night, and let them serve as signs to mark seasons and days and years,' ... And God saw that it was good." (Genesis 1: 1,14,18; NIV; emphasis mine).
Did you see that? Along with the rest of creation, God created the seasons and declared them good. Winter, Spring, Summer, and Autumn were all declared "good" by our Creator.

"Hate" is a very strong word. When I say that I hate something or someone, based upon the very definition of the word, I am saying that I have a very intense hostility or aversion to that person or thing. I could even go so far as to say that I loathe it. At the very least, when I say I hate something or someone, there is no love in the equation; there is only an extreme dislike.

So if I say that "I hate winter," what I am really saying is that I loathe and hate a part of God's creation that He declared good. As I pondered that, it left me with a bit of a bad taste in my mouth. Somehow it almost seems sacrilegious to hate something that God said was good. And yet how many of us haven't used such terminology from time to time?

Call it semantics, if you wish, for that is ultimately what we're looking at here; the meanings of a word, or phrase, in the context of winter.

Now I really do not want to be legalistic about this, but it really is quite amazing how often we use language in ways that we either do not really mean, or in ways contrary to their proper lexical meaning. If we stopped to itemize examples of speech gone awry, I imagine we'd come up with quite a long list.

Of course we do not hate God's creation; He declared it good. And yet Paul said,
"The creation waits in eager expectation for the sons of God to be revealed. For the creation was subjected to frustration, not by its own choice, but by the will of the one who subjected it, in hope that the creation itself will be liberated from its bondage to decay and brought into the glorious freedom of the children of God. 
We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. Not only so, but we ourselves, who have the first fruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for our adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies. For in this hope we were saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who hopes for what he already has? But we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently." (Romans 8: 19-25; NIV).
Perhaps with the fall of man the rest of creation was also somehow knocked out of kilter. Not to discredit science, but maybe that too partly explains some of creation's anomalies, such as bizarre seasonal weather patterns and other ecological complexities; creation is groaning as it too looks forward to "a new heaven and new earth" when "the old order of things has passed away" (Revelation 21:1,4; NIV), and as some have called it, Eden is restored.

Do I need an attitude adjustment? Maybe. Perhaps the psalmist said it best, "May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, O Lord, my Rock and my Redeemer" (Psalm 19:14; NIV), even when I'm shovelling out the driveway from yet another snowfall. Thank you Lord, for the beauty of the winter season. Amen.

Photo Credit: Christina T; Flickr Creative Commons

Saturday, 10 January 2015

Satiric Love?

A Caveat: The following are the thoughts of a guest blogger and as such do not necessarily represent the views of Rethinking Faith and Church.
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It's amazing to me how many people think that the ‪#‎CharlieHebdo‬ incident is about freedom and rights. It is, in fact, about hatred. Nothing else.

Love and Hate are two sides of the same coin. If you are not doing one, you are doing the other. If your words or actions are not bringing more love into the world, they bring more hate. And, hate begets hate. I have taken the time to look at several of the Charlie Hebdo pieces, and let me tell you... there is nothing but hate in them. Laughing at a satirical image or article that is filled with hate only amplifies that hate. Such laughter spits the very same venom. That doesn't justify the attack, it merely explains it.

Sigmund Freud is purported to have said "The first human who hurled an insult instead of a stone was the founder of civilization." It's a sad reality that those who are hit by an insult often hurl stones in reply. I guess the extension of Freud's observation could be that the first human who chose not to even hurl an insult was the founder of enlightenment.

The way to combat such violence is not by stomping our feet and demanding that we have rights and freedoms. Such hatred can only be beaten with greater love. We may have the right to free speech, but with that right must come the obligation to express ourselves with love.

Can one use satire in love? How would that play out? If you accept the definition of satire as "the use of humor, irony, exaggeration, or ridicule to expose and criticize people's stupidity or vices, particularly in the context of contemporary politics and other topical issues." How can that be done in love? How does one "expose and criticize" someone's "stupidity or vice" in love?

Dear Father in heaven, please forgive this rebellious generation.

By Guest Blogger: Waldo Rochow

Saturday, 3 January 2015

What's on Your Reading List? Here's A Few I'm Reading

So as I sat down in my favourite chair about 5:00am this morning, coffee in hand and as per my usual custom, it occurred to me how many partly read books I still have stacked around me here in my reading corner from last year. Let me share a couple things I'm currently reading.

This first one is not really a "left over," but rather is part of my ongoing reading. For many years now I've been fairly regularly reading through the The One Year Bible. The current version I'm re-reading again this year is the ESV. Past versions have included the NIV and the LB. Someone once said that "A Bible that's falling apart usually belongs to someone who isn't." I don't know if that's true or not, but it's a nice thought. At the very least, it describes my old NIV which is now completely worn out.

I like the discipline of daily Bible reading, and on those days when I neglect that quiet time, my day strangely seems to usually go south fairly quickly. Another thing I like about the One Year Bible format is that it forces me to read through portions of the Bible that can easily be overlooked or neglected.

Another book I'm currently reading is The Story: The Bible as One Continuing Story of God and His People. I am totally enjoying this one. I discovered it quite by accident as my son and I were surfing through iTunes out on the deck last summer and came upon Music Inspired by the Story. If you aren't familiar with that album, you owe it to yourself to check it out. It is made up of various artists; Disc 1 containing 11 songs based on the Old Testament, and Disc 2 containing 7 songs based upon the New Testament. It is simply amazing!

The Cribbage game my son and I were playing that day suddenly got put on hold as we began previewing the album on iTunes and then promptly bought it. We have since given away a few copies of it as gifts. Absolutely one of the most beautiful albums I have had the pleasure of hearing in a very long time. It was soon after that we bought the hardcover copy of the book from which the album got its name. Like the music CD, a gift of this book has also been made a few times this past year. I highly recommend both the album and the book.

Another partly read book that I'm carrying over from last year is The Complete Works of E.M. Bounds on Prayer. Edward McKendree Bounds (d.1913) was a Methodist Episcopal church pastor, lawyer, and army chaplain. It is said that he spent the last seventeen years of his life rising before dawn every day to read and write. I hope to add this one to the "Finished Reading" list this year.

It would be impossible for me to single out a favourite portion of this book, but I will leave you with one quote to whet your whistle and exposure to Bounds' thoughts on prayer. He writes, "God is not now so evident in the world, so almighty in manifestation as of old, not because miracles have passed away, nor because God has ceased to work, but because prayer has been shorn of its simplicity, its majesty, and its power" (p.205). Now there's a topic for future discussion.

Continuing the list of unfinished books from 2014 is the two-volume, 600+ pages each, Tozer Speaks. It is a collection of 128 teachings of A.W. Tozer (d.1963). It used to be said of this self-taught theologian, "No one could say it like Tozer!" To this day he continues to be widely read, and if it isn't already, in my humble opinion deserves to be counted among the all time modern Christian classics.

What's it about? Glad you asked. Volume One contains four books. They are, (1) Selections from his Pulpit Ministry; (2) Ten Messages on the Holy Spirit; (3) Ten Sermons from the Gospel of John; (4) Essays on Spiritual Perfection. Volume Two also contains four books. They are, (5) Twelve Sermons in Peter's First Epistle; (6) Twelve Messages on Well-Known and Favorite Bible Texts; (7) Twelve Sermons Relating to the Life Ministry of the Christian Church; (8) Ten Sermons on the Voices of God Calling Man. While I have already read Volume One, Volume Two still remains on the un-read list.

One book that I can't believe I haven't gotten to yet from my 2014 reading list is David Wilkerson: The Cross, The Switchblade, and The Man Who Believed. It is the story of David Wilkerson as told by his son Gary. I still remember feeling shocked when I heard over social media of his death in an automobile accident in April 2011. The first thing I did was pick up my old tattered copy of The Cross and the Switchblade and re-read it. I see that there is now a 45th anniversary edition of this classic available.

From the back cover of this new book: "Wilkerson had a radical perspective, believing God could - and would - do great things in the rejected and lost. He had a counter-culture persistence, refusing to give up on the people of the streets even when they had given up on themselves. He had a supernatural perception, looking into the eyes of drug addicts and gang members and seeing Christ."

I guess I could be excused for not yet finishing the next two books, as I received them for Christmas gifts this past year. Still, they too remain as only partly read, and so I add them here to the list for 2015. The first one is called, The Beer Drinker's Guide to God: The Whole and Holy Truth About Lager, Loving, and Living. How's that for a title to make you sit up and say, "Hmm."

It is authored by Father William (Bill) Miller, an Episcopal priest in Kauai, Hawaii, who also is co-owner of a bar in Marfa, Texas aptly called "Padre's." Essays in this 338 page book include, (1) WWJD: What Would Jesus Drink?; (2) Brewed Over Me and Distill Me, O Lord; (3) Pearls of Great Price; (4) Chicken Soup for the Hooters Girl's Soul; (5) Miss Hawaii and Other Miss Takes; (6) Don't Leave Me Hanging: The Theological Significance of Athletic Supporters. As a self proclaimed humorist and former pastor, who has also been known to enjoy a nice cold beer or three, this one is turning out to be an enjoyable and lighter read. I am reminded of Ecclesiastes 3:1,4 which in the NIV reads, "There is a time for everything ... [including] a time to laugh." This book is helping to feed my funny bone.

The other un-read Christmas book is Francis Chan's Forgotten God: Reversing Our Tragic Neglect of the Holy Spirit. I've read two other of Chan's books, Crazy Love and Erasing Hell, so I am already familiar with some of Chan's works.

The back cover of the book asks, "Could it be that we've forgotten the One who distinguishes us from every religion and cult in the world?" Hmm, I guess I will have to read that and see where he's coming from. Perhaps it will be worth writing a book review on one day soon.

Well there you have six of the books (not including the One Year Bible), either partly read or yet unread, that I've carried over with me from 2014 and which are currently stacked around my favourite reading chair. Unfortunately there are still a plethora of other un-read books scattered throughout my office. It's interesting how book stores are like candy stores for me; there's so much out there that I want to read, and inevitably, I buy more than I can possibly stay on top of. I guess I know how I'll be spending my retirement ... reading.

In closing, I need to put one more plug into an exciting book project that I've been honoured to have been a part of last year.

If you haven't yet purchased a copy of Simple Church: Unity Within Diversity, I would very much encourage you to do so. Twenty-four people (myself included) came together with editor Eric Carpenter to make this book possible. It had its genesis with a blog post that Eric wrote some time ago in which he discussed how often the church has come to be known for what it's against rather than what it's for. Simple Church is written from a positive perspective, showing that though we her authors may not agree on everything, we are still very much united in our diversity.

My own chapter deals with "A Church That Assembles for Mutual Edification." Do check out Simple Church: Unity Within Diversity.

Thanks for stopping by. Peace & Blessings to you and yours in 2015.

  • Any great Christian books you would care to recommend? Drop me a comment; I love to hear about them. Who knows, they may find their way to my next CBD book order.

Friday, 2 January 2015

of Plane Disappearances and Religious Hate Speech

WARNING:
THIS POST CONTAINS DISTURBING CONTENT

I just read something that turned my stomach sour. As a matter of fact, at the risk of being too graphic, I almost felt like puking! It left me not just upset, but actually angry to a point I haven't been to in a while.

Someone who signed off his blog post as, "I'm Jim Solouki, and I'm a True Christian," is suggesting that the Air Asia flight QZ8501 is a warning from God against heathen nations and is their judgment for failing to repent and turn to Jesus. In the process he attacks several eastern religious groups and then has the audacity to offer a prayer asking God to "please continue to take down planes from the heathen parts of Asia until those sinners repent."

I kid you not!

He begins his hateful and "Un-Christian" poison with, and I quote,

"Did you know that God has made an Air Asia plane flying into Singapore disappear with 162 passengers on board as punishment for their sinful behavior? That's right boys and girls, much like the Malaysian Air disappearance and crash, God has made a plane filled with mostly Indonesian passengers disappear. Why are planes carrying Indonesians disappearing more than any other types of plane? The answer is simple! The Indonesian people are a heathen people! They failed to keep Christ in Christmas, and now Christ chose to not keep their airplane in the air!"

If you need to read more of this dribble, you can see the rest of the poison via this link. I can't stomach reprinting any more of this garbage. Part of me didn't want to give him the time of day, much less more publicity, but in light of his sewage, this still needed to be said:

An Apology

To the people of Indonesia, to the various religious groups that were attacked, and on behalf of REAL Christians the world over, I want to offer a sincere apology. The rantings of Jim Solouki (if that's his real name), do NOT represent genuine Christianity. They represent only his particular cult.

REAL Christianity is about love, the love of God through Jesus Christ. It is also about anyone who professes to love God, showing the same love towards his or her fellow man. We believe that since "God so loved the world" (John 3:16), we dare not hate those for whom God sent His Son to die; we are called to love them too, even if they think a little differently than we do on matters of faith.

Pronouncing judgment and condemnation on objects of God's love is NOT the Christian way. That is nothing less than hate speech, and in the opinion of this blogger, ought to be prosecuted as such. Regardless whether we believe in a divine judgement to come or not, I'm sure we all would agree that such things are left for God and Him alone. He alone has the final say there, and not us. We are called simply to love one another and leave the rest to Him.

Again, on behalf of REAL Christians, I'm sorry for the poison caused by Mr. Solouki's post, and we're sorry for your loss in this airline tragedy.
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Postscript

After this post was originally shared on Facebook, someone shared a link to this story:

www.cnn.com/2015/01/02/world/asia/airasia-disaster-church-members-mourn/index.html

"Heathens," as Mr. Solouki alleged? Hardly! Many were not only fellow Christians, but as it turns out, one local church lost one-third of their fellowship's members on that flight. Now there's something for us to be praying about!